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	<title>Comments on: The Carrot and The Stick</title>
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	<description>My Thoughts on Healing, Raiding, and being a Resto Druid</description>
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		<title>By: Guthammer</title>
		<link>http://fallingleavesandwings.wordpress.com/2010/02/10/the-carrot-and-the-stick/#comment-1166</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Guthammer]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Feb 2010 22:28:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Have you seen the TED talk about &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.ted.com/talks/itay_talgam_lead_like_the_great_conductors.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;conducting&lt;/a&gt;?

I think that mostly the contours of the raid will guide the raiders.  Yes, most raids probably need a good hand to guide the car-or bus to be size appropriate--but I think its a good ideal to aspire to. 

And its a fun TED talk.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Have you seen the TED talk about <a href="http://www.ted.com/talks/itay_talgam_lead_like_the_great_conductors.html" rel="nofollow">conducting</a>?</p>
<p>I think that mostly the contours of the raid will guide the raiders.  Yes, most raids probably need a good hand to guide the car-or bus to be size appropriate&#8211;but I think its a good ideal to aspire to. </p>
<p>And its a fun TED talk.</p>
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		<title>By: Beruthiel</title>
		<link>http://fallingleavesandwings.wordpress.com/2010/02/10/the-carrot-and-the-stick/#comment-1158</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Beruthiel]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Feb 2010 18:30:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I am not sure I agree with raids &quot;leading themselves&quot;.  Someone has to have their hands on the steering wheel, even if it&#039;s just to guide the motorcoach in the right direction :)]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am not sure I agree with raids &#8220;leading themselves&#8221;.  Someone has to have their hands on the steering wheel, even if it&#8217;s just to guide the motorcoach in the right direction <img src='http://s0.wp.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Beruthiel</title>
		<link>http://fallingleavesandwings.wordpress.com/2010/02/10/the-carrot-and-the-stick/#comment-1157</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Beruthiel]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Feb 2010 18:29:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Sometimes I will admit that I stick the wrong people.  But if I know I&#039;m wrong, I will also apologizing for having hollered at the wrong person/group of people.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sometimes I will admit that I stick the wrong people.  But if I know I&#8217;m wrong, I will also apologizing for having hollered at the wrong person/group of people.</p>
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		<title>By: Beruthiel</title>
		<link>http://fallingleavesandwings.wordpress.com/2010/02/10/the-carrot-and-the-stick/#comment-1156</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Beruthiel]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Feb 2010 18:28:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I would agree!  Each raid night, we do try to lay out what we would like to accomplish that night.  Sometimes we make it, sometimes we surpass it, and sometimes we don&#039;t meet the goals we set.

But, I find letting people know &quot;here is where we want to go&quot; is often very helpful!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I would agree!  Each raid night, we do try to lay out what we would like to accomplish that night.  Sometimes we make it, sometimes we surpass it, and sometimes we don&#8217;t meet the goals we set.</p>
<p>But, I find letting people know &#8220;here is where we want to go&#8221; is often very helpful!</p>
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		<title>By: Beruthiel</title>
		<link>http://fallingleavesandwings.wordpress.com/2010/02/10/the-carrot-and-the-stick/#comment-1155</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Beruthiel]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Feb 2010 18:27:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[We very much try to raid without too much hollering happening.  And we try to make the plesant raid experience the carrot.

But...sometimes people do just need a whack to refocus :)]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We very much try to raid without too much hollering happening.  And we try to make the plesant raid experience the carrot.</p>
<p>But&#8230;sometimes people do just need a whack to refocus <img src='http://s0.wp.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Beruthiel</title>
		<link>http://fallingleavesandwings.wordpress.com/2010/02/10/the-carrot-and-the-stick/#comment-1154</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Beruthiel]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Feb 2010 18:26:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I would 100% agree that you have to know the people you are working with to know what will work for them and what won&#039;t!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I would 100% agree that you have to know the people you are working with to know what will work for them and what won&#8217;t!</p>
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		<title>By: Guthammer</title>
		<link>http://fallingleavesandwings.wordpress.com/2010/02/10/the-carrot-and-the-stick/#comment-1153</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Guthammer]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Feb 2010 18:16:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I generally much prefer letting raids lead themselves, as a raid leading style (kind of touched on &lt;a href=&quot;http://guthammers.blogspot.com/2010/02/taking-blame.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;here&lt;/a&gt;, but sometimes you need to really focus your raiders and &lt;a href=&quot;http://guthammers.blogspot.com/2010/02/bring-dps.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;use the stick&lt;/a&gt;.

“Should I just yell at y’all before our first pull next week, and skip the bullshit in between?”

Oooh, I can so see the temptation in that!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I generally much prefer letting raids lead themselves, as a raid leading style (kind of touched on <a href="http://guthammers.blogspot.com/2010/02/taking-blame.html" rel="nofollow">here</a>, but sometimes you need to really focus your raiders and <a href="http://guthammers.blogspot.com/2010/02/bring-dps.html" rel="nofollow">use the stick</a>.</p>
<p>“Should I just yell at y’all before our first pull next week, and skip the bullshit in between?”</p>
<p>Oooh, I can so see the temptation in that!</p>
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		<title>By: Vyll</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Vyll]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Feb 2010 13:23:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I personally don&#039;t mind either as long as they&#039;re both warranted.  The thing that really irks me is when I get the stick and it isn&#039;t warranted.

I think you&#039;ve got the right idea with your leadership style.  Always using the carrot or always using the stick is never going to be as effective as judiciously using both.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I personally don&#8217;t mind either as long as they&#8217;re both warranted.  The thing that really irks me is when I get the stick and it isn&#8217;t warranted.</p>
<p>I think you&#8217;ve got the right idea with your leadership style.  Always using the carrot or always using the stick is never going to be as effective as judiciously using both.</p>
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		<title>By: kaozz</title>
		<link>http://fallingleavesandwings.wordpress.com/2010/02/10/the-carrot-and-the-stick/#comment-1149</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[kaozz]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Feb 2010 23:48:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Ah, I was just talking about The Endless Carrot yesterday. Always good to have goals to keep one interested ;)]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ah, I was just talking about The Endless Carrot yesterday. Always good to have goals to keep one interested <img src='http://s1.wp.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Cassandri</title>
		<link>http://fallingleavesandwings.wordpress.com/2010/02/10/the-carrot-and-the-stick/#comment-1147</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Cassandri]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Feb 2010 22:57:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Er most of the raids*]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Er most of the raids*</p>
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